Wednesday, April 29, 2015

duplicates

{ What I Wore: J.Crew Factory dress (not currently available, but I'm pretty confident it will be back soon!) & leopard belt // lace up heels (old, similar linked up below) // Rebecca Minkoff purse // Ray Ban Aviator sunglasses (mine are the green + gold) }





I used to not believe in "duplicates", but as I have grown more into my style, I have found that if I love something it is usually worth getting a back-up! I have this dress in purple from J.Crew (see all the ways I've worn it here) & LOVE it, so when it popped up on J.Crew Factory in new colors, I new it was coming home with me! It makes a perfect work dress, but is also so versatile for many other occasions!
Do you believe in "duplicates"?

Shop all of the versatile dresses I'm currently crushing on from J.Crew Factory below:


Sunday, April 26, 2015

Sunday Shopping: Festival Favorites

I may not be going to a music festival this year, but that isn't stopping me from dreaming of frolicking around in festival clothes! My 13 favorite picks for everyday festival style this Summer below:
{1} I'm so happy that rompers are still going strong! And this one has parrots on it! // {2} never enough tassels!// {3} phone charge on the go! Not enough time to slow down when adventuring! // {4} a sexy one-piece, yes that's a thing! // {5} festivals are muddy, sneakers are you best friend! // {6} preppy beach towel // {7} bat your lashes! // {8} loving this literal take on the "palm print" // {9} I don't go anywhere without my Panama hat! // {10} tassel scarf // {11} this drew is so perfect! can easily be dressed up or down // {12} instant snaps - I have and LOVE this camera // {13} get beachy waves even if you aren't on the beach!

Friday, April 24, 2015

Top 10: Girls' Night

{ What I Wore: Nordstrom romper (shop similar long sleeve rompers at the bottom of the post) // Jason Wu for Target pleated skirt // Steve Madden heels // Ray ban aviators (mine are the gold/green) }

Headed to Vegas this weekend with the girls & I am so proud that I didn't pack my whole apartment. I like being the person on trips who has what everyone needs, but sharing a hotel room with lots of people, means I need to have a small footprint. One of the ways that I managed to pack lighter? Smart outfit planning. This is actually a romper + a skirt. The romper (previously worn here) will be worn to Wet Republic, & then I can add the skirt over it for dinner the next day at Sage Aria. 

While I didn't get anything from the Lilly x Target launch (tear), this skirt remains my favorite Target collab piece. The knife pleats make it a versatile outfit maker, & when traveling it doesn't get wrinkled! Now if I could only afford more Jason Wu stuff!
Shop my favorite pleated skirts & long sleeved rompers below:


Shop my favorite long sleeved rompers:

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Top 10: Work

{ What I Wore to teach: J.Crew Factory sweater (if you love cardigans, go buy this one in every color!), polka dot blouse // BB Dakota pencil skirt // ShoeMint ankle strap heels // earrings via Rocksbox* }

*I was provided a free subscription to Rocksbox, but I truly love this service! Sign up using my code and get your first month free: HEREANDNOWLIFEXOXO 

This new Rifle Paper Co. phone case adds a pop of happy to my desk at work! 
Hello Sunshine!
This is my Top 10 work outfit formula - made up of the pieces that make me feel the most me.
Colorful Cardigan + printed blouse (mostly likely polka dots) + black pencil skirt + pointed toe heels/flats.

See my previous Top 10 Remix outfits here: sightseeing, casual weekend wear

One of the other 7th grade teachers said that she had a student ask her why she didn't wear more clothes like Mrs. McC (me) - kids do say the darndest things!

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Failure, New Beginnings, & the Unknown

*this post is more on the personal side, so if you just come here for the outfits, please come back tomorrow for another style post :)

I had someone say one of the most insulting things to me the other day: "Every time I see you, I regret for you that you dropped out of grad school". 

Woah - hold up stranger!
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It is true, my WHOLE life I saw myself growing up to become a "scientist". It was my dream to go to Vanderbilt & get my PhD in biomedical research & then one day use that degree to either teach college, or lead a pharmaceutical research team. I jumped at the chance to move to Nashville in 2009, & my life totally revolved around grad school for the next 3 years.

Somewhere along the way, I lost the passion. I had a lackluster mentor who didn't believe in me, & that doubt began to sneak under my skin as well. He regularly asked me how I expected to ever make it in the world of science as a woman. The last 6 months of grad school, despite working together in the same research lab, my mentor acted like I didn't exist. He would chose to talk to me through emails first sent to our lab manager, & then forwarded on to me. And in the end, instead of "toughing it out", "putting my nose to the grind stone", "proving him wrong", I decided to pivot (anyone else watching Silicon Valley - hilarious, but I digress!). I had always wanted to teach, & why not intersect with students earlier than college!? I started to research how to use the skills I had been practicing in grad school to teach Middle to High School students in Science. 

I decided to pull the shoot, & started to quietly work behind the scenes to withdraw from grad school with my Masters. My program doesn't usually award Masters degrees, with students going from a bachelor's to a doctorate directly. But with almost 4 years of research experience, the department eventually awarded me a M.S. - even though I had to keep it secret from my mentor while I was writing my thesis (he seriously excelled in being dramatic throughout the entire process). 

On one of my last days at Vanderbilt, I had already signed up for a talk about using a PhD to teach in secondary schools. I didn't want to go, I was basically in free fall, & I didn't want to be around people who were getting their PhDs & going on to great things. I'm pretty sure they were offering free snacks, or I would have never gone. 

At the talk, there was a vibrant, passionate woman speaking about the local charter school she had just founded. I was entranced. After the talk I went up to her & told her that I wanted to come & work in her school, to get more first hand knowledge of the amazing things she had been talking about: serving a newly immigrated population of students, growing students 2 years for every 1 instructional year, working hard, seeing big results. 

The next day I went in for an "interview" & began working for her the following week. I found a way to use my Masters to get a teaching certificate in 1 year, while teaching (will be getting that in the mail this May!) & everything quickly fell in to place.

I quickly ran away from the toxic environment at Vanderbilt, & head first into a new career.

To note: around this same time Tyler & I were getting married, & also moving. Holy stress.

I have never been more satisfied in a career path as I am now. 

Is it the most difficult thing I have ever done? YES
Are there days when I get up at 5 am, work until 6 pm, & then come home to only work until 12? YES
Do I regret giving up my dream of the PhD? YES

Truth is, I am still angry that I will never be a Dr. Jessica. I am still frustrated at the roadblocks that I have faced. I am jealous that my husband will eventually finish the program that we started together.

But on the other side of the coin, I am proud to be a teacher. I am proud of myself for taking action in the face of difficult situations. I am proud to support my husband with all of his amazing feats.

In the end, it is bittersweet. Do we ever know how it will all turn out? Looking back, isn't the journey more fun than we thought?

So to the rude stranger, please do not waste your pity & regrets on me. I am thriving in the here & the now.

Monday, April 20, 2015

Bloggers Who Budget: Stripes For Less


*I was provided a complimentary subscription to Rocksbox, but am truly hooked! Sign up using my code and get your first month free! "HEREANDNOWLIFEXOXO"



It's time again for Bloggers Who Budget! This month we are sharing our favorite striped pieces! This is hands down the most obvious section in my closet. I just counted and I have almost 20 striped pieces. However, I do have a favorite striped child, and it is this top! Currently on sale at J.Crew Factory for only $24.50! Be sure to check out these other striped ladies below!

The most common theme in my closet - stripes!

Some of my favorite striped items have been heavy hitters on the blog. Including this Old Navy wide stripe dress, this fit & flare striped dress, my J.Crew Factory striped skirt, & then this breton stripe top that I am wearing above. It is my current go-to outfit starter. I love the cut, the fabric, & the weight! Totally one of my top 10!

Speaking of The Top 10 Remix. I am still on the bandwagon (see the first post here). 
Curious to know what my top 10 items are? See below & click to see how I've worn these  pieces in the past.

9. Knife Pleated Skirts (own it in mini, midi, and maxi lengths)

Again, these aren't necessarily the things I wear most, but the things that feel the most ME every time I wear them.

What are your top 10?
Check out the Top 10 Remix visionary's blog here: Sarah's Real Life

Shop my favorite striped tops for less:


Shop my favorite flared jeans (at all price points):

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Sunday Shopping: Spring Favorites

1 // 2 // 3 // 4 // 5 // 6 // 7 // 8 // 9

Whether you are looking for a little or a big update to your Spring wardrobe - this is what I am currently loving! That lace skirt is next on the purchase list for sure!

Monday, April 13, 2015

polished

{ What I Wore: wrap dress ℅ Shabby Apple // J.Crew Panama hat // DSW booties (similar) // bracelet via Rocksbox* }

As you all know, I have been working on building my Teacher Wardrobe. Finding what works for my new lifestyle of bending over to pick up dropped pencils, reaching up to write on the white board, standing on my feet all day, all the while trying to not expose too much around a classroom of 12 year olds. This means no low necklines, saying good-bye high hems, & avoiding straps that aren't wide enough to hide my bra/under garments. 

I have purchased things from Shabby Apple before (like my fun tulle skirt!), but now I am perusing their website with a new filter - stylish workwear that keeps me comfortable & polished all day! And while this is a little thing - I adore that they show their styles on women wearing mostly flats. I try to bust out my comfiest pairs of heels once or twice a week, but I will mostly be wearing any of my work clothes with flats - so I appreciate seeing them styled that way.

I am currently in a wrap dress phase of my life & instantly fell in love with the fun colors & print on this one from Shabby Apple! I wore it with black flats for work (even got a compliment from our rockstar principal!) & then will heels and my weekend hat for Saturday adventures around Nashville. This dress has earned a front row spot in my closet!
What pieces have been the major players in your work week style?

Get social with Shabby Apple: Pinterest // Twitter // Facebook // Instagram

And be sure to check out my Teacher Style Pinterest Board with lots of stylish teacher outfit inspiration! 

this dress was gifted to me by Shabby Apple, but all reviews/opinions are my own. 

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Lenny + Eva

I enjoy supporting brands that truly have a beautiful & inspiring story. Lenny + Eva products are empowering & made by a special team - based right here in Tennessee!
be sure to check out this amazing line (online or in stores) & enter to win your own gorgeous bracelet below!

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Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Spring Vibes

{ What I Wore: J.Crew blouse (shop similar below) // skirt ℅ by SMITH // bracelet + earrings via Rocksbox // Steve Madden heels // Ray Ban aviators (mine are the green + gold) }

*I was provided a complimentary subscription to Rocksbox, but am truly hooked! Sign up using my code & get your first month free! "HEREANDNOWLIFEXOXO" 

Happy Easter, Happy Spring, Happy Happy Everything!
I am excited to introduce you to a new Southern designer - Smith Sinrod's line, by SMITH.

I love that the designs are inspired by lovely Southern cities - including Nashville! Taking the eclectic personality of the city, to create modern but not totally trend driven - classic pieces you can wear for forever. I wore this last weekend, and couldn't have felt more feminine!

Eyelets, chic black & white AND pockets - you know I am one happy gal! Shop this skirt here & be sure to check out all the other Spring pieces. 
Shop similar blouses below:


Monday, April 6, 2015

polka dots in the city

{What I Wore to sightsee: J.Crew button down // J.Crew Factory shorts (now on sale!) // Jack Rogers sandals (the "platinum" color is perfection!) // Rebecca Minkoff purse // Ray-Ban aviators (mine are the green + gold)

I snapped these photos with the sweet Bryn of Stone Fox Style while out adventuring in San Francisco last month. Check out her blog here: Stone Fox Style.
I am super excited to be starting the Top 10 Remix Challenge with the lovely Sarah of Sarah's Real Life. One of my top 10? Silk buttons down blouses. One in each color please!

What are your top 10 wardrobe items? Find out more about this fun April challenge here.